Published: Oct. 20, 2016

With October being Domestic Violence Awareness Month, theÌý (OVA)Ìýis sharingÌýsome warning signs of intimate partner abuse.

One may feel:

  • constantly put down or criticized by their partner
  • that they are giving up things that are important to them, such as school, family or friendships
  • often worried about their partner’s anger
  • scared of their partner’s unpredictability
  • they are scanning for when the next eruption of anger will come
  • embarrassed for people to know how their partner treats them

Their partner may:

  • wantÌýto make all the decisions
  • try to control what their partner does, how they look, who they see and talk to
  • readÌýtheir partner’s emails, textsÌýand calls to frequently checkÌýup on them
  • manipulate with insults, guilt and/or threats
  • prevent their partner from working, studying or socializing
  • useÌýmoney to control their partner
  • threaten to hurt their partner, loved ones or themselves
  • keep close track of where and what their partner is doing all times
  • force their partner into unwanted sexual activity
  • destroy partner’s property, threatens pets
  • push, shove, slap, and/or hit their partner

If you are concerned about a relationship you are in or have been, or if you are concerned about a friend’s relationship please contact Å·ÃÀ¿Ú±¬ÊÓƵ’s .Ìý It is a freeÌýand confidentialÌýadvocacy and counseling center on campus for students, staff and or faculty.Ìý Email: assist@colorado.edu or call 303-492-8855. Open Monday-Friday, 8 a.m. toÌý5 p.m.ÌýThe phone number also has after-hours phone counselors available.